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Personality Development

Personality development, or the growth of one’s character and self, has become a prominent pursuit in today’s world. In this era of intense competition, everyone strives to be the first to achieve success. Observing this relentless race, numerous motivational speakers and writers have emerged, eager to guide and inspire. Even spiritual teachers, storytellers, and fitness trainers have joined this fray.

However, in recent decades, a subtle flaw has crept into our collective thinking. As Indians, we no longer assess individuals based on their qualities, flaws, or knowledge but are swayed by the size of the crowd following them. We reason, “If so many people are gathered, the offering must be worthwhile.” This mindset has taken root because we have, to some extent, lost confidence in ourselves. Instead of looking within, we fix our gaze on others, blindly following the masses.

As mentioned earlier, achieving success requires holistic personality development. Yet, the marketplace of self-improvement often focuses on superficial changes. Merchants of external transformation know that surface-level fixes are quick and marketable. Those seeking such development prefer shortcuts, while the providers are often more interested in selling illusions than fostering true growth.

Superficial personality development is fleeting. It cannot sustain the heights of success for which the journey was begun. Without inner transformation, external change yields little lasting value. Eventually, old patterns reassert themselves, often accompanied by negativity that unsettles and undermines one’s sense of self. This negativity neither allows a return to the former state of being nor sustains the present one.

With willpower and focus, you can achieve anything in life. This is not an exaggeration but a profound truth. Willpower resides within everyone, yet failures, time, and misguided efforts erode it like termites gnawing at wood.

Here is a story that illustrates the power of will:

A family traveled to Haridwar for a holy dip in the Ganges. Believing that the morning hours would offer peace and tranquility, a husband, wife, and their four-year-old son arrived at the riverbank at dawn. The husband suggested, “I’ll stay here with the child while you take a dip. Once you return, I’ll go.” Reluctantly, the wife agreed and went to the river. Meanwhile, the father, lost in thought, did not notice when the child wandered off, following his mother.

The mother, unaware of the child, entered the river for her ritual dip. The boy, enchanted by the water, paused but was shoved into the river by another child. Before he could react, the current swept him away. Though not particularly strong, the current was enough to carry the small boy downstream. A commotion ensued, drawing the attention of the parents. Seeing her child being carried away, the mother plunged into the river without hesitation. She swam swiftly through the current, reached the boy, and carried him back to shore on her back. Onlookers were awestruck by her courage.

Once ashore, she laid the boy down and collapsed, unconscious. What amazed everyone most was that the woman did not know how to swim and suffered from a respiratory illness. Yet, at that moment, her sheer willpower allowed her to defy her limitations. Her singular focus was to save her child, and she achieved what seemed impossible. This is the power of will, the very essence of what we discuss here.

Time and again, we hear stories of individuals achieving the unimaginable through willpower. You too can harness this force. When your will is strong, your focus narrows to your goal alone. All your energy channels itself toward that singular objective, leaving no room for doubt or distraction. Your senses—sight, hearing, and thought—align with your purpose. In moments of crisis, this phenomenon occurs naturally, but it can also be cultivated for daily life.

However, we do not suggest exhausting your energy on trivial, day-to-day matters. Instead, conserve your strength for meaningful pursuits. When focus becomes your habit, many tasks resolve themselves effortlessly, requiring only a fraction of your energy. If your willpower has waned or negativity has crept in, start with small, everyday goals to rebuild your inner strength.

Friends, explore our discussions on karma-yoga, where we delve into the mysteries of the universe and the human body. Modern science tells us that the human body is composed of 99.9% atomic energy. If harnessed, this energy would surpass the destructive power of even the largest nuclear bomb ever created. Imagine the untapped potential within us, often squandered on trivialities.

We urge you to recognize the divine energy within you. Direct it toward achieving your life’s goals, and embrace every joy and fulfillment that you dream of. This power, bestowed upon you by the Creator, is your birthright. Use it wisely, and the impossible will bow before you.